You may have noticed that I haven’t updated as frequently as I normally do. This is in part, due to the fact that I’m gearing up for the birth and have a couple of projects to finish before I’m able to fully concentrate on nesting and the blog.
One project is rereading Dune by Frank Herbert. I tend to reread this book before every major life event. Sometimes I’ll reread the entire series. But this time I only have time for the first book. I somehow just feel it’s important — the book has a lot of meaning for me, and a lot of wisdom that has impacted my life.
The other project is creating a birth plan for Eryn.
My first birth plan was the standard checklist available on any pregnancy site: Do you want medication? Limited intervention? What pain coping techniques do you want? And who are your support people?
But it also included tips for hospital staff that included my modesty requests — such as to labour with my hijab on if a male attendant was present; to double up on hospital gowns to make sure I didn’t flash anyone when wandering the halls; and that any male nurse or student entering my room needed to have my permission first.
Well, Eryn came so quickly that I’d thrown the birth plan out the window by the time they had me naked on the table with a male OB between my legs.
This time we don’t have much of a plan, beside the fact that I want to labour outside of the hospital for as long as possible and I’d really like Eryn present at the birth. We also have to prepare her for a night over at my parents house, in the event that we’ll stay overnight at the hospital. She’s never slept away from both of us before.
And of course, we have to prepare her for the baby coming home.
So I made her a birth plan.
It’s just a quick story about our family and what we’re hoping to do once I discover labour has begun. We’re going to play, sing, make dua’a — and God willing have a safe and healthy birth.
I just thought I’d share some of it with all of you.